Relationship or Studies?

Relationship and Studies, which one is more important? If your answer is Relationship , what do you plan to do in the future? Will you still have a wonderful family life just like before? If your answer is Studies, the people around you might say you are on the right track before you found out that your relationship with other people are getting worse. Thus, Relationship and Studies, both are equally important.

So, you might say what the hxxx! or so lame or swt or xxxx. So whatz the point? How do i get both of the element without losing the other? The answer is i also dunno. Basically i am posting question instead of answers. So, if you find this article useless. I would say carry on and see what u will found. Life is full of uncertainty. If not, there is no fun....at all. Imagine that you will come across 4 traffic light during the journey back home from school. First three are always green and the last 1 turn red when your bas sekolah reach the traffic light. The driver will always say the same word, xxxx. The journey back home, from the second you left school to the second you step into your house is exactly 13 minutes and 56 seconds. Today is 13 minutes and 56.1 second coz the earth is spinning slower everyday. Have you started to get bore? No you wont! cause it is very funny. However, try to experience it yourselves for 365.25 days a year and see how you feel.

So unpredictable life is fun? Not exactly, sometimes it is miserable, cause you newer know what is ahead of you. For example, you ask your friend" hey bro, i kinda like Natalie but i dunno how she felt for me, do you think i need to tell her? but i dunno how she ll react?". So is unpredictable life fun? You tell me.

I always get "lost" in this unpredictable life, sometimes, i lost my direction. However, it is through God that i finally managed to come back to the right path. For He said, I am the light of your path. Choosing between relationship and studies is easy. Many will choose studies or both. But when you chose studies, do you really think that you can forget about relationship? end up, you are losing both of them. Thus, i think everythings can be good provided that it happen at the right time. May God guide us in everyday of our life, give us direction and help us to make decisions everyday. It is my belief that if God prepare something for you, he will give it to you at the right time. If he doesnt means it is not suitable for you. Owh...so sad. But he will find a better one to make it up for you. Thx God.

Satisfy?

Alex Tam

Finding a Way to Live

"Is it better to be fear or respect?I would say is it too much to ask for both?" said Ironman in the movie, Ironman. An interesting movie and incredible dialog however, do fear and respect from others really make us happy and enjoy every moments of our life? I would say it is better to be loved. For love is unconditional ......(pls refer yourself). What is love? (jb would say this is a good question) Well, love is all around us. Some are hidding, some are overwhelming and some are tragidy. As a youth, student and friend, I tend to find the meaning of having relationship with other people(as in friend or family, dont think beyond that) and tring to classify their priority in my life. For instant, Is my relationship with Natalie Isle Cole better than other Friendster Friend? Is your relationship with your parents better than your friend? or vice versa?

Being a Christian, many might think that relationship with God should be positioned above anyone else. However, i think that it is through the relationship of us with other people that we can actually visualize our relationship with God. It is only when we started to understand the meaning of father then only we can truly understanding the relationship of ourselves with God. In fact, it is amazing to have God in my life. I have live my life for 10++ years before knowing that God had created me. During that period of time, it was fun, memorable, enjoy, and as usual it also come along with some tears. Yeah, a life without God is not that bad that we cant live our life. In fact, it is through calamity and disaster that we started looking for God. However, when i found myself stucked in a situation of fear, unsecured, emptiness, God gives me hope and brought me out of the darkness of dungeon ant tunnel. He helps me to fight the mushrooms and guide me to a place where pots are eternally available as long as you have the enough mesos. Ever since that, i started to learn more about him and become sufficient spiritually and physically. Yeah, that was a rough idea of how i get through it.

Does this means that forever i am free of any troubles mentally and physically? I might says the troubles do reduces and become easier to be overcomed. Despite being a Christian, I still face many life problems like everyone else. However, i think that i have found the key to unlock my life. With the key, i could seek help from God and talk to him whenever and wherever i need to. According to Form 4 Biology Text Book pg???, every sudstrate need a specific enzyme to unlock it. This is known as the famous lock and key mechanism (it is important, always come out in exams). He might or not might not solve your problems right away but he will always be there for you and show you the way out.....if you seek for his present

Treasure your life, God, and family. (friendz also)


Alex Tam